As a pastor, people call me for many reasons. Sometimes, people struggling with Addiction call me when they’re especially feeling tempted to relapse.
Never has a caller said, “my Program recommends I reach out when I’m feeling tempted, so that’s what I’m doing now.” But with some combination of experience and insight from God, I can usually figure it out in the first few seconds.
Contributing factors in today’s phone call were: Joblessness and Health Problems (the latter directly caused the former). Idle time and feeling hopeless can create a dangerous situation.
Listen
I listened to my friend’s pain.
I’ve personally met with Godly licensed therapists for many years. I’ve seen Healing in my own heart when I share with a good listener.
After listening, we spent some time brainstorming jobs his health could still handle [I now have a new mental list as I look for “Hiring” signs].
Next, I prayed for my friend. Then I asked him to pray for me. There’s a reason we call our church Renovation Community. This pastor needs God’s renovating work in my life as much as my friend on the phone—so we pray for each other.
Learn
Our friends in the 12-Step Community have much to teach us if we have ears to hear. Of course, the deepest truths they share come from a much older source….
Galatians 6:2 Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.
You’re not alone, friend.